Change of Face

by admin on April 11, 2012 in Adventure and Me, Bits Of My Personality, Little Things with No comments

Well, not a complete, or drastic, change of face really…  Today was a big day for me though.  A little bit of new! 

I had been talking myself out of contacts for years, holding onto a favorite pair of frames.  With an opportunity to go to a large glasses outlet, ALONE for a couple hours, I had my chance to change my own mind.

Walking in I had a set goal in mind.  Nothing less then what I was thinking could make me put my faithful vera wang frames aside.

“Cat eyes,” was my blunt explanation at the clerks request to aid me.  Well she didn’t disappoint.  Back in a flash she had some bling bling cat eye frames that made me feel all glam librarian!  My next response was equally as to-the-point, “Sold!”

I almost talked myself out of contacts one more time.  Thanks to a very good clerk I stayed, went through the introduction to it all and discovered I am very capable when it comes to touching my own eye.

I walked around a bit, to make sure I was fine with the contacts in.  As I strolled back to get the washing kit I spotted a pair of REAL sunglasses!  They were BIG, pretty shaded glass and actually in style.  Could these be my first pair of sunglasses since I was a child?!  Casually I handed them to the lady at the desk, squealing inside, then strolled into the contacts office to get my supplies.

With that I had new glasses, contacts and sunglasses!

TTFN

Gungor “Please Be My Strength”

by admin on April 8, 2012 in Uncategorized with No comments

This Sunday

by admin on April 8, 2012 in Feeling It (Thankful) with No comments
We celebrate Christ’s resurrection.

  I was greatly moved to see the body I fellowship with COME ALIVE as they sang songs that are clearly about the glory and power of Jesus Christ. 

  I don’t believe we have to loose that passion on Sundays proceeding the holiday traditionally called ‘easter’ in our parts.  I do believe Christ Jesus can be powerfully joyfully active in our hearts each and every day.  As we awaken from slumber and our eyes blink open, the mind boots up, the heart flutters to awareness and the whole soul chooses to ONCE AGAIN, THAT DAY, LIVE IN THE SPIRIT!

May the Lord Jesus Christ bless you!

TTFN

Spring Activity

by admin on April 3, 2012 in Do I Call It Parenting Advice?, Four Little Eggs In My Nest, Life Keeps Changing, Little Things with No comments
Spring makes family time SO easy!  
All of a sudden our yard, front or back, is a wonderful place to be!

Readers are popping up all over the yard, following the sunny spots really.  The front step is a favorite place to sit.  Just the other day my mother (in law) and I sat upon it and enjoyed tea in the sun together.

All the sports equipment is reappearing.  It emerges from the garage and is instantly spread all around the yard.  Catch with Dad is a favorite.  In the above picture we are enjoying the front yard, during a part of the day with more sun there.  My littlest man is wearing his biking helmet, though he didn’t bike much.  It just happens to be a favorite outdoor fashion accessory of his.

Our drive way takes up the whole west side of our yard.  It, the driveway, is taken up by a large collection of pine cones.  They are forever falling, thus providing forever fun.  My five year old collects them like nobodies business.  One minute they are eggs, next minute she is just the maid trying to keep this yard clean (by golly) and later they became newspapers.  She would pass them off to her older two siblings who (TRUTHFULLY) then bike up and down the block throwing a pine cone into each yard; calling at each stop ‘NEWSPAPER’!  I laughed so hard and didn’t want to ruin their fun but kept my fingers crossed that the neighbors would forgive us…

Speaking of bikes, you bet the bikes are out and busy!  All four of our crew are now puttering around.  The bigger two are so good at it they could motor all over the city, if they where so inclined.

(The kids working on a dinosaur excavation toy in the back yard.)

Back yard fun has included a lot of clean up, all the winter gunk seems to collect there.  But, there has been fun too.  Just today the kids where digging up dinosaur bones ( an Easter present from their grandparents).  The other day they got to dig in the backyard sandbox for the FIRST time this year and it took a lot to talk them back out.  Of course the back yard is home to the famous apple trees and my eldest is often up there pushing her monkey child limits.  She likes to go up high enough to see her friends house (two blocks up in our crescent) and then try to signal her to come over and play.

Neighborhood kids are popping up left right and center.  They zero in on our yard like puppies to bacon.  I smile, set my limits, enforce my limits and let them enjoy the yard with my children as long as they behave.

Basically I know it is spring because I have gone from demanding the kids “Get out side and get fresh air”, to demanding they “Get inside ALREADY”!

TTFN

Slowing It Down

by admin on March 29, 2012 in Do I Call It Parenting Advice?, Feeling It (Thankful), Little Things, Mama Heart Mushings with No comments

Had one of those days, well almost… I managed to slow it all down and cut myself some slack just in time.  Disorder was the perfect word to describe how my brain woke up yesterday, maybe it never completely did wake up!  I messed up a planned play date and just couldn’t get my self caught up.

Finally I realised it was ‘one of those days’ and so I STOPPED trying to run the ship as I always do and put it on coast…  Stopped worrying about the play date failure, the dishes, the floors, the filthy play room and all the rest… stepped away from my to-do list… and then my littlest man and I went for a walk instead.

Sunshine and spring, greeted us.  We marched, at a very three year old like leisurely pace, down to the corner thrift store and puttered through there.  Stopped to say hello to the bearded dragons at the community center and applauded for Bonny (of Bonny and Clyde) who is now expecting EGGS… BABIES!  We then slowly walked back home, examining every newly thawed rock, slightly frozen over puddle and crack in side walk.  Hoping most of the way home, we where fully prepared when we found a collection of freshly chalked out hopscotch sets (thank you neighborhood child) and even Mommy had her turn.  We found our yard and played in the last of the snow in the back.

Tea with my friend worked out… still managed to babysit my niece later that day (for a couple hours) and even managed to introduce my crew to my newest niece.

Supper, day before last, was wild salmon and an amazing salad…last night… I knew better then to try and just threw beans, wieners and toast at the kids.  Still a success in my books if it means we don’t order pizza or something even more pricey.

While I hope my head is back in the game today, and I stop spilling everything I pour for myself, I am especially thankful for a lovely day when it was shaping up to be ‘one of those days’.

TTFN

Thrifty Finds

by admin on March 29, 2012 in Bits Of My Personality, Little Things with No comments
(They’re just waiting to hold tea and crumpets!)

Yes, it is a wise choice to frequent thrift shops when you are a stay at home mom, however it isn’t pure practicality for me…I learned to really enjoy the process involved in thrift shopping long ago.  It is a very different kind of shopping, compared to mall and retail stores.  I was raised on thrift shopping thanks to two frugal ladies, Grandma Smith and my mom.  Both let me tag along on regular thrift shopping adventures and taught me how to hunt for the treasures.  Now it is I who lets the child(ren) tag along.

My eldest daughter was hoping to find a purse, so we went to ‘villa village’.  She found her ‘new to her’ bag… And I found two purses, two tea cups, with those marvelously extra large saucers for snacks, and two sweetly vintage-esk tops.

Been admiring this skirt like style of bag, that purse number one is, for years, but never could talk myself into the price of a lot of leather-esk bags out there so…. This one is soft, easy to open and easy to fish stuff out…when I spotted the price tag, 4$, it was sold. 

(Purse One)

 Purse two caught my eye right away, I would like to say it was my Scottish blood that drew me to it.  My Dad would say it was my Scottish blood that put it in the cart when I realized it too was only 4$.  I had to laugh when I got it home though.  My soft imitation leather summer purse is exactly the same but a light blue color and no plaid!  I really like the wide mouth clasping style instead of a zipper for the main pocket of the bag.

(Purse Two)

I was hoping for a dress but spotted these two laced tops instead.  Together they where ten dollars.

My girl went away with a couple books and a shiny black shoulder purse… successful treasure hunting on a quick night out with my lovely daughter.

TTFN

She Makes 12

by admin on March 27, 2012 in Feeling It (Thankful), Mama Heart Mushings, People In My Heart with No comments
Babies are such a nice way to start people.  ~Don Herrold

My eldest brother’s family just added one more to the mix.  His amazing wife had her second daughter in the middle of the night.  This niece was in a hurry to be crowned newest grandchild, in line at number 12 for my parents. 

After starting on organizing baby clothing, well after midnight, my sister soon realised she had to get to the hospital.  Her daughter arrived only 10 minutes after getting into the delivery room, they all JUST made it. 

A super busy night at the hospital meant they could go home only hours after my niece arrived to the world.  Healthy and happy and snuggled in at home, I got to hold her that night, still only hours old.  Beautiful and soft, she, like all the blessed newborns our earth receives, she is amazing. 

I was there when her sister got to meet her for the first time; joy and wonder filling big sisters face.  My three year old niece was able to clearly express her greeting and her joy at finally having her sister with in hands reach.  She stared, touched and glowed; glowing as both her mother and father did too. 

Congrats to Aaron and Karla’s family!  We love her already and are thankful you brought her into our lives.

The arrival of new life NEVER never gets old.  Thank the Lord Jesus Christ for another little member of our clan!

Ecclesiastes 11:5
Just as you cannot understand the path of the wind or the mystery of a tiny baby growing in its mother’s womb, so you cannot understand the activity of God, who does all things. 

TTFN

ROMANCE (Marriage Monday)

by admin on March 26, 2012 in Bits Of My Personality, Marriage Monday, My Romance with 7 Comments
~WASTE NOT a minute of your time together~

Life is short, eternity doesn’t include marriage so enjoy it while you can!  With how fast time moves, the older you get and the more kids you have, you must seize the moment.  While my man can be ‘shy’ about hugs and kisses in public I am not.  He has learned to let me, and I have learned to find a lot of pleasure out of his embarrassment (wink).  Basically, even if the kids are around we flirt, tease and laugh with one another because lets face it, date nights and perfect romantic moments alone are rare, due to financial limitations and the amount of little people we have to disrupt it all.  Every little moment to be romantic counts.  He passes me in the kitchen and I grab his beard and pull him in for a kiss.  I walk by with the laundry and he gives me a hug (upsetting the laundry).  We are getting pretty good at not wasting time, so much so that the kids have noticed.  The other night I said, more to my man then to the kids, “Off to bed you guys, I need to give your Dad trouble for eating all my goat cheese (yes I take my favorite snacks seriously)”.  To this my daughter responded with, “Oh yeah right (sarcasm already, she is only ten), you’re just gonna cover him in smooch-y kisses”!

~ TAKE IT, it is yours to possess~

I knew even when we where still dating that I was the romantic one.  The one who needed, and noticed the most romantic little moments.  Thus I quickly got good at telling him clearly what we should do, pointing out when we where in the middle of a perfectly romantic moment, and MAKING THEM HAPPEN MYSELF.

(Bike riding together at river.)

The way I got over the feminine tendency to be frustrated at him, for ‘not getting it on his own’, was to start seeing when he actually was being romance in ‘his own way’, and to accept, appreciatively, his uniqueness in this area.  When he would throw me over his shoulder and laugh at my screams, this was romantic to him.  When he would buy me a chocolate bar and eat half then smile as I reprimanded him, this was romantic to him.  When he follows me with his eyes, usually when I am sick or tired or just a mess, this is VERY romantic to him.  All of the previously mentioned ‘man romance’ moments now make me laugh, and love him even more!  Finding contentment in how one another ticks, finding joy at how unique they are from what  ones culture calls ‘romantic’, is key to a happy and flirt-y relationship.

 Practically, we literally carve out time for one another.  Yes we try to go on dates but mostly we work hard to keep our schedules much more calm then what is normal speed all around us.  We make it a family priority to have plenty of unplanned free time for all, and then to enjoy it with one another.

Time is so romantic 🙂

First Monday of every month at Chrysalis

TTFN

Half the Batch (The Making of Bread Process)

by admin on March 26, 2012 in Better Check Out Links, Domestic Damsel, Foodie Like Me with 2 Comments

~ PART TWO~
Directly below is the summery from the first post.  To read part one please link to the first post RIGHT HERE.

(Home made bread goes with everything!)
“Tired kinda day but need to make bread so I halved the batch and will work on four loaves.  Just didn’t feel up to wrestling eight loaves all day.  I had good company, my three year old is always happy to help with baking.
So, for fun, I decided to try capturing step by step shots of the process I  carry out weekly. “
1. Dough is done so let it rise and beat it down (kneading it) about three or four times during the course of the day.
(Ready to rise.)
(Risen.)
2.  Once it has had a few rounds of rising and kneading, you oil the pans (if they aren’t seasoned already).  These silver pans are my unseasoned ones (the seasoned ones have turned black).  My husband bought these lovely pans, for me, from a baking school in the States.
3. Dough is kneaded down for the last time then sliced into four lumps (since this is the half batch).
4.  Lumps are encouraged into loaf shapes.  I roll mine mostly.  It is done similarly to what you did when making snakes out of play dough as a child!
5. Loaves are placed in pans and again covered up is a cozy fashion.
6. They rise in about two hours. 
7. Pans of risen loaves of dough are put in 400 degrees for about 20 minutes.

8.  Once nicely golden they are popped out of their pans and set upon my cooling racks.  I then cover them with a damp tea towel.  This method, gleamed from my sister in laws Dutch mother (HELLO ANNA!), cools and keeps the bread from becoming too crusty.  My mother used to butter them, which is a delicious method to accomplish the same but I found got really messy with the amount of bread I make and with having to bag and freeze it as I do.

9. Step nine and ten are both very important.  Nine is to take a minute and bask at the beautiful domestic treasure that is fresh home made bread.  Pat yourself on the back 🙂

10. Step ten, is credited to my husband… for Pete sake don’t freeze all the loaves you just made!  Put one aside to be sampled immediately and to be enjoyed untouched by the freezer.

11. Once cooled nicely bag them.

12. Put the majority of your labor in the freezer to be sure it is stretched all week.  It thaws beautifully and is very nice if bagged well and placed in a large chest freezer.

So there we are, managed to make this into a twelve step process too.  From dough to bread, ta-da!  And now REPEAT, if you have a bread loving family as large as mine you will have to be faithful at this weekly (twice weekly when halved) process to keep your family amply provided for in the toast and sandwich department.  Have a beautiful day!
TTFN

Squeeze The Tomato

by admin on March 21, 2012 in Better Check Out Links, Bits Of My Personality, Feeling It (Thankful) with 1 Comment
(What a stunning river it was that day, so calm… at surface level…)

I don’t know if I can ever comfortable write out all that happened when our neon was totaled.  A big truck pulled out in front of us and made an accordion out of our little car.  So many people where there for us, little miracles where pieced together after the fact, and although it shouldn’t have been so we where all okay… physically.

A conference speaker said ‘When the tomato is squeezed you see what was inside.’

When I sat physically paralyzed by shock, after the accident, I received one of the most amazing miracles of my life.  I assumed the worst and yet was praying, with seemingly no will power of my own, over and over and over ‘Thank you Jesus.’… I didn’t feel abandoned in that moment, I realized I didn’t let go of my faith when I thought it was over and I didn’t feel alone… far from it… I have never felt so wrapped up in my saviors love, so secure in my eternal salvation and so THANKFUL for Jesus having me!

This was years ago, before we had our last two kids.  Where is my heart day to day?  When the big events aren’t happening how is it doing?  Am I devoted to him, unconditionally as I live my pretty undramatic regular life?  Am I devoted to him when my undramatic life gets a good dose of drama or trauma?  We are called to trust.  When we do we soon discover all these kinds of questions are answered in him and by him, because Jesus takes care of it… if we can just trust.

Proverbs 17:3
(American Standard)
“The refining pot is for silver, 
and the furnace for gold; 
But Jehovah trieth the hearts”.  

We will be refined and purified, through out this life, by our Lord.  We can’t do any of the cleansing.  This is the very reason Christ came!  He is our doctor and wants our sickness!  The hard things in life reveal where we are at in the process but they also can be used by the Lord to burn away our impurities, as gold is purified by the furnace.

Jeremiah 17:9-10
(The Message)
 “The heart is hopelessly dark and deceitful,
   a puzzle that no one can figure out.
But I, God, search the heart
   and examine the mind.
I get to the heart of the human.
   I get to the root of things.
I treat them as they really are,
   not as they pretend to be.”

We are sick.  Often we can drum up guilt over what we see coming up from our heart and more so from what we know is there, masked with our performances.  We are afraid of what we don’t know about ourselves.  We crush ourselves with guilt when we fall… AND YET we can ask the Lord into our temptation instead of wait for the fall.  We can let him in to examine the darkest store rooms of our heart, to discover what we don’t even know about.  If we would just stop fighting our deceitful heart on our own and stop punish ourselves with guilt, neither have benefit… instead surrender our pride, pride in our abilities and strength, and hand the heart over to the Creator.

The enemy wants us to believe we are beyond hope when our dark recesses are exposed.  He doesn’t want us to allow the Lord to clean it out.  He is a liar.  Trust in your Savior!

Psalms 3 1-4
(American Standard)
1Jehovah, how are mine adversaries increased! Many are they that rise up against me.
 2 Many there are that say of my soul, There is no help for him in God. Selah
 3 But thou, O Jehovah, art a shield about me; My glory and the lifter up of my head.
 4 I cry unto Jehovah with my voice, And he answereth me out of his holy hill. Selah 
So I would like to punish myself, on a regular basis, for how sloppy my devotion to him looks each and everyday, but I need to stop working on things in my own strength and learn the lesson I was taught in that car accident… Jesus knows all about all the dark and all the deceit in my heart.  Still he faithfully holds my heart, fixes it, and loves me.
REMEMBER God is not fair, he is merciful!
Jesus is Jehovah’s mercy to us!
AND JESUS always honors repentance!

P.s. The tomato metaphor and other inspired portions of this post I gleamed from the teachings at conferences put on by SPOKEN WORD MINISTRIES (teacher being Boyd Hopkins).  LINK to find out more about this excellent discipleship focused ministry.

TTFN

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